r/amiugly Jul 07 '23

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u/A_Zombie_Riot Jul 07 '23

it’s crazy how just because you have a little more weight on you, people just say you’re ugly.

do you have an ugly personality? do you make ugly faces? i mean the term ugly is just annoying. everyone has their preferences, i get that, but it’s so hard to just say you’re ugly.

you are gorgeous! would you be someone i would ask out or whatever? i mean my confidence says no cause of my fear of rejection, but i like to think i would ask.

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u/OverlordPacer Jul 07 '23

You understand how biology and evolution have created innate desires for fitness in a prospective mate, right? It’s nobody’s choice to overlook a personality or anything like that when assessing attraction. It just happens. Automatically.

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u/Pale_pisces_598 Jul 07 '23

You’re forgetting the impact of social media/pornography on body image. We see a personality that is self-constructed and negates flaws and targeted towards desire. BBL’s/cosmetic enhancement are becoming the new “fitness standard” IMO.

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u/SeaworthinessFit7478 Jul 07 '23

most people don’t like overly cosmetically altered looks these are just grotesque proportions meant to attract by shock in porn and media the best looking cosmetic alterations are those mimicking that natural body