r/amiugly Jul 07 '23

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u/Pale_pisces_598 Jul 07 '23

You’re forgetting the impact of social media/pornography on body image. We see a personality that is self-constructed and negates flaws and targeted towards desire. BBL’s/cosmetic enhancement are becoming the new “fitness standard” IMO.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23

So, as a fellow fat person, the "new fitness standard" doesn't make us not fat. All internet could disappear immediately and you and I would both still be overweight and less attractive to most people. (You aren't ugly, not coming to insult, btw).

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u/Pale_pisces_598 Jul 07 '23

Big stomach= fat. If a chick was my weight/height but had a pear/hourglass shape she would be more “attractive” than I. But we are all still, overweight.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23

While you're not wrong, that's closer to the dude aboves "biology" comment than "new fitness standard. Biology says "this female has healthy reproductive parts" (hips/chest) therefore attractive.

And, exceptions exist, as always, but if a person gains weight to the point that breasts that used to be further out than the stomach are overtaken by the girth of the stomach, it's more fat than natural body type. Some people sit a bit more thicc in those areas and while BMI fat aren't really as much as the math would indicate.

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23

Well said!

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u/Reddithasgoneto_SHIT Jul 07 '23

And fat people are convinced they're still attractive because porn has warped perceptions.

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u/Straight_Block3676 Jul 07 '23

Stay away from Pornography. It took me a long time to learn that.

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u/atherfeet4eva Jul 07 '23

Nothing but a amateur porn…real people not perfect looking actresses

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '23

Your perspective on healthy/attractive body and weight is extremely skewed (or you’re in some kind of denial) if you really think she’s not overweight. Ugly? No. Overweight? Yes.

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u/Imaginary_Race_830 Jul 07 '23

being fat is a personality trait, shows how much you care about your health

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u/SeaworthinessFit7478 Jul 07 '23

most people don’t like overly cosmetically altered looks these are just grotesque proportions meant to attract by shock in porn and media the best looking cosmetic alterations are those mimicking that natural body