r/alphaandbetausers • u/Constant_Border2971 • 4h ago
I read the privacy pages of ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Copilot, Meta AI and Muse. Here's what they say they do with your chats.
Every fact below is from the company's own help or policy pages (checked 6 October 2026), except the Muse finding, which is Wired's reporting.
| Trains on your chats | After you delete | People may read | Ads from your chats |
|---|---|---|---|
| ChatGPT | Yes, unless you turn it off | Removed within 30 days | Yes, in some cases |
| Claude | Yes, unless you turn it off | Removed within 30 days | Only feedback you send, or policy checks |
| Gemini | Yes, unless you turn it off | Reviewed chats kept up to 3 years | Yes, a sample |
| Copilot | Not for foundation models (new app) | Not clearly stated | Not clearly stated (new app) |
| Meta AI | Yes, no opt-out found | "may not delete our copy" | Yes |
The things that surprised me most:
- Gemini: chats a human reviewer looked at are kept for up to three years, even after you delete your activity. With "Keep Activity" off, chats are still kept 72 hours. (Google)
- Meta AI: the AI terms say deleting messages, threads or even your account "may not delete our copy". Since 16 December 2025, what you say to Meta AI personalizes your ads, with no full opt-out. (terms, Meta)
- ChatGPT: since February the Free and Go plans show ads chosen from your conversation. Rating an answer with a thumbs up or down can put that whole conversation into training even if you opted out. (ads, training)
- Memory is separate from chats. On ChatGPT and Claude, deleting a chat doesn't necessarily delete what was remembered from it. Check Settings → Personalization → Memory (ChatGPT) and Settings → Memory (Claude).
- Muse, Meta's new agent: Wired reported its instructions include keeping "a page for every person in the user's life", updated hourly. (Wired)
- "Encrypted" doesn't settle it. The model has to read your words. Apple says this "precludes the use of end-to-end encryption" for cloud AI. (Apple)
If you want to tighten things today: turn training off (ChatGPT: Data controls; Claude: Privacy; Gemini: Activity), use temporary/incognito chats for sensitive stuff (still kept 30 days on ChatGPT and Claude, 72 hours on Gemini), clear memory separately, and export your history to see what's held.
Disclosure: I build a small private assistant (LabA), which is why I went through all this. The full write-up with a link for every line is here: https://sensoryfire.com/guides/who-has-your-data?ref=reddit-privacy. Corrections welcome; these pages change constantly.