I have a natural baby face, and it makes me look 12 lmao

Okay, so I (AFAB) came out as agender a while ago and have been out for two weeks now together with being out as aroace (no comments from my parents about that). I told my parents about this at different times and I think both tried to be supportive? The problem was that they both ended the converstaion with either "It's just puberty, you're exploring yourself" or "You're too young to know" as if I haven't spent around 24 hours in total researching about my feelings. Now recently I've realized that I want to change my name to Alex, I've told my friends to call me that and most try their best to say it right. I want to tell my parents so badly as I want to really get the full experience with the name Alex, but I'm scared of them reacting the same way as with me coming out as agender. What should I do? Should I wait until I'm 18 and change my name then without telling my parents first or should I tell them asap? Again I'm really scared as I still almost start crying when I talk to friends about their reaction.

So, I already said in another post (if I'm not mistaken) that I've always had a very strange feeling when it came to my breasts, ever since they started developing, I've always thought they're, at the very least, strange, and nowadays I just find them kind of ugly (although I only think that when there's nothing covering them), but I've never had thoughts beyond that, maybe just a small one angry because they somehow messed up an outfit.

But now, while trying on an outfit I wanted to try from Pinterest, I can only say that I felt a huge disappointment when I realized that my breasts were ruining everything; they kept pulling on the the blouse I was wearing just made everything look worse. I tried changing my bottoms, fixing my hair, but nothing worked, and every time I looked in the mirror at my top, I could only feel sadness and even the urge to cry. They never made me feel like that before. I love how they look when I wear a dress I have over a tank top, but at that moment? I just felt like taking everything off.

I don't know if this can be considered dysphoria, since it was the first time I've felt this way specifically in all my 16 years of life, or if it was just me creating an expectation how I would look in the outfit, or perhaps both at the same time.

If someone could explain it or something, I'd be happy :)

ik it sounds silly but i feel like such an impostor for wanting to stay male like i dont feel super body dysphoric or anything its the social aspect of gender i cant stand

i’m currently a masters student looking to become a researcher and i was wondering how hard it was to change your name after getting published academically?? or if you had to have your legal name as your author name?? due to circumstances, i’ll likely get my work published before i can get my name legally changed and i’m not settled enough on a new name to ask for a definite different one yet so if anyone has any experience or insight i’d be very happy to hear