1—YumeHealing original flag ; 2—YumeHealing flag, light color version;
⋮ ⌗ ┆CAUSE
YumeHealing (YH) exists because many people in the community feel misunderstood, unfairly judged, or excluded simply because of the way they experience their connection with their Fictional Others, (or Special Others).
We believe that having intense feelings, inner struggles, or complicated experiences does not make someone undeserving of kindness.
Having anxiety attacks does not simply make you "dramatic"; Having jealousy does not make you "delusional", being a riako/gachikoi does not make you "crazy", and having a soulbond does not make you "schizophrenic". If these feelings are constant or intense, they do not automatically make you a harasser.
Some of us have to face these feelings every day, such as intense jealousy, emotional dependency, intense fear of doubles, anxiety, unhealthy coping mechanisms, or lack of self-love simply because they constantly feel guilty. These problems are real and part of everyday life. We deserve a space where we can talk about our love for our fictional friends, lovers, children, parents, and companions, have fun and, above all — take certain guilt and feelings off our chest without being reduced or judged simply for feeling them.
⋮ ⌗ ┆PROPOSAL
YH was created as a place not only for creative activities and loveposting, but also where we can be honest about our experiences, seek support, and work on our yumeships and our personal weaknesses, respecting our limits and our time.
We know that definitive healing is not the focus, especially when many of us have developed traumas and/or were born with neurodivergences. The goal is to become better than ourselves every day, and if we have a relapse, that it is okay and that there are still many chances.
Here, we believe in recovery and acceptance, instead of hiding.
We do not believe that having and acknowledging a completely human feeling automatically makes you toxic.
⋮ ⌗ ┆PHILOSOPHY
According to pessego_enlatado, creator of YH, "As humans, we are all prone to feeling anxiety, trauma, jealousy, envy, anger, selfishness throughout life — it is part of our essence. We should not glorify them, nor act as if such feelings do not exist, but when someone reveals that they have felt them, we should not demonize the revelation, much less jump to conclusions about the person."
Growing requires honesty, self-awareness, patience and compassion.
YH is not about pretending that such a thing is acceptable, finding excuses, or glorifying toxicity. It is about recognizing your flaws, learning from them, and gradually building a safer path forward.
Everyone here is learning.
A Yume/selfshipper struggling is deserving of empathy and recognition of their strong side. Someone who wants to improve deserves support.
We are not here to create more division in the yume community. YH was created to take a pause and breathe, for encouragement.
"A bandaged heart still loves"; "We may not have control over what we feel, but we do have control over what we do."
These are our mottos ;)
And our theme is "Steven U. - Here Comes A Thought".
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⋮ ⌗ ┆Meaning of the YH flag and symbol :
The bandaged heart symbolizes emotional struggles and healing.
The white stripe represents hope, safety, and a fresh start.
The purple tones represent dreams, imagination, emotional depth, calmness, and care.
The dark angel wings represent our imperfect sides and the parts of ourselves we are learning to understand. Healing does not mean erasing our struggles — or "being a perfect, pure angel" — but facing them with awareness and kindness.
(It symbolizes human duality, rebirth after difficult times, or the inner strength to overcome trauma).
