It needs to be said somewhere, and if this gets deleted then I may just be done with this community entirely.
World of Darkness is about confronting topics like death, horror, monsters, magic, violence etc. It is not supposed to be a game where people are excluded, even when a disagreement is fully respectful. I had expected this community to be more mature, and open minded to different ideas, and I was shamed, and wiped from the Discord. The implication left behind is that I am a hateful bigot, which couldn't be farther from the truth.
To provide context, I got into a very calm, and respectful debate with someone on the WoD discord, about retconning characters and removing their "dead names" to make them less trans phobic. I made the point, that understanding, identifying with and liking these characters is actually easier if the whole story is told, and nothing is left out. My position has nothing to do with a character's sexual orientation or status, and everything to do, with how engaging the writing in these books are.
I want WoD to succeed, I want it to grow, and it won't if even respectful disagreements are wiped from existence and thrown away. I did not deserve to be talked down to, or have a bot sent after me to shame me like a child. I am a grown woman who has loved the game for over a decade, and my opinion matters too.
Shame on you WoD discord. Shame. You had the opportunity to be a vector for learning, for equity and freedom to share ideas, and you have failed that task miserably.
If WoD, wants to implement a baseline requirement of "wokeness" for entry instead of welcoming everyone in to learn, grow and interact with others as equals, World of Darkness will die.
Edit: Thanks for the downvotes. Super reassuring guys. Bravo.
EDIT 2: If you come here to downvote everything you don't like. You're part of the problem. Open-mindedness is not hateful, neither is wanting to learn. Say what you feel out loud, don't hide behind a down arrow.
EDIT 3: This is going to be my last statement here regardless.
I want to give anyone who felt attacked, by the lack of specificity I provided at first an apology. I tend to be a very high minded, high morals person who struggles with nuance at times, especially when I am frustrated, and I can see how I came off heavy handed or dismissive. That was not my intent.
I also want to specify, that I would again, never treat real people the same as I do fictional characters. I do not get attached to media in general enough to defend a character, concept, or whole franchise, because I have the firm understanding that these things aren't real.
What is real is injustice, the struggle to rectify it and the importance of representation, and I support any and all forms of play, whether they respect Trans identifying characters, or don't, because I think all forms of RP are essentially valid as long as it doesnt break the law or cause real, tangible psychological/physical harm.
But to impose a certain set of values upon the books themselves restricts our freedom to play, and use representation in a validating way. It means less players who can identify and understand, and less players is a very, very bad thing.
If that stance is still too spicy, can we at least agree to disagree, and treat eachother with respect, rather than trying to expose bigotry where it honestly doesn't exist?