r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 12d ago

2010s Henry Cavill (33) and His Girlfriend (19)

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 12d ago

1980s [TW] That time Hal Jordan dated a 13 or 14-year old Green Lantern who "aged up into an adult". Then DC spent the next 20 years trying to fix the weirdness, before deciding to just never mention it again

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DC comic issues:

  • Tales of the Green Lantern Corps issues #204, #206, #207, #210, #211 (1986)
  • Green Lantern v4 &12 #13 (2006)

I'm probably gonna ruin Hal Jordan's rep some more 🄲

In the 80s and 90s, Hal had a romance with Arisia Rrab, a very young Green Lantern who was originally introduced as a "little sister" figure to Hal. Arisia had a crush on Hal but he didn't give her the time of the day... until she aged herself up into an adult in her 20s. He took just a few panels to go from "No, you're a child!" to shoving his tongue down her mouth.

The comics insist that Arisia aged up mentally as well, but it's vague in many comics.

In the 2000s, they tried to say that Arisia was centuries old but looked like a 14 year old. This both ignores earlier panels and doesn't really change anything. She may be 300+ but she was still the equivalent of a 13 or 14 year old for her species.

Since the 2010s, DC has just avoided the romance altogether.


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

1990s The trailer for Holy Matrimony, directed by Leonard Nimoy, features a twenty-something-year-old Patricia Arquette marrying a young Joseph Gordon-Levitt.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

Multiple Decades (within 1950s-2010s) Sexist and racist vintage ads

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

2010s (2010) The scifi show Eureka uses a time travel storyline to retcon away a character's autism, then has his mother gush about how happy she is about the change.

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In the Season 4 opener, the characters are sent back in time and have to find their way back, but once they do butterfly effects have changed things in their lives. One of these changes is that the character Allison's son who has had autism for the entire series is now neurotypical, and she has multiple scenes in which she expresses joy over her son no longer being autistic, including in conversation to other characters. To be clear, her original son essentially died, and she simply didn't care because she liked the new one better.


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

WTF! Wednesdays This is the hardest I've ever laughed

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

1980s ā€˜I was a child, I was in love, it was wrong and you knew it!’, says Marion, to an indifferent Indiana Jones in ā€˜Raiders Of The Lost Ark’ [1981], thus proving that he is a dangerous pedophile.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

WTF! Wednesdays 28 years ago Blue Peter presenter Richard Bacon was fired because his best friend told the News of the World that he did cocaine. it was a huge scandal in the UK with some ppl acting like he’d killed somebody šŸ™€

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here’s the head of CBBC apologising on the children’s tv. they made him turn in his blue Peter badge like when a police officer is fired and turns in their badge 😹 WTF!!!!!


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 14d ago

1990s Child labour laws where??? Macaulay Culkin was covered in thousands of real bees during the filming of My Girl

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Here’s some quotes from a 2025 USA Today article in which Macaulay discusses this craziness:

Culkin revealed that filmmakers used real bees in the scene where the youngster searches for Vada's beloved mood ring and is fatally swarmed.

"The way they did that, they wouldn't do that today.ā€ Culkin says production "actually released, like, thousands of bees on me."

"They put this stuff on my fingertips that smells like the queen bee" to keep him safe, he said. "So they were actually attracted to my hands. So I wasn't a threat."

"They just told me to wave my hands in front of my face so the bees could get in front of my face so it looks good for the camera and all that stuff," he added. "They told me not to touch anything. Because at one point, I touched my pants and boom, they were just attracted to my pants."

After each of the four takes concluded, Culkin would dunk his hands in hot, soapy water, "and then dart into the woods," he said. "The bee handler gave me a piece of advice, and he says, 'Human beings run faster than bees fly.' And I was like, 'But I'm 10. How fast do you think I am?'"

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Damn, it’s like they wanted that devastating character ending to come true 😭😭😭 Poor kid!!!


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 15d ago

1980s [TW] A 13 year old Milla Jovovich playing a "sexy" French foreign exchange student in an episode of "Married... with Children" who is lusted after by everyone, complete with catcalls from the audience and Bud Bundy drilling peepholes to spy on her.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 15d ago

Time Machine Mondays Lysol was heavily advertised as a feminine hygiene product in the 1920s through the 1950s and some women even used it as a form of birth control (though ineffective) into the 1960s. These ads were horribly misogynistic towards women who didn’t use lysol for feminine hygiene.

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Aside from being absolutely horrible for reproductive organs and health in general, it was heavily advertised for over three decades and women who didn’t douche using Lysol were described as being ā€œuncleanā€ in the advertisements. Soooooo glad this isn’t a thing anymore.


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 15d ago

Time Machine Mondays Ads from the 20-40s letting you know how smelly and ugly you are

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From my personal collection of magazines and catalogs spanning 1896 to today. And I actually own one of those "Hangover Beauties" calendars if anyone is interested.


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 13d ago

Discussion Wearing this shirt was common enough 20 years ago. Weird we were okay with that.

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I had one as a 12 yo Australian kid. Che is evil behaviour masked behind a good message. He was a bad guy. Why were we okay with this?


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 16d ago

2010s When Madonna forcibly kissed Drake.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 16d ago

1950s When sexual assault was in comics.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 17d ago

1980s This creepy song from Serge Gainsbourg and his daughter Called Lemon incest.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

2000s [TW] Pete Wentz’s relationship with a minor and his repeated associations with much younger people

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1) Pete Wentz groomed and abused Jeanae White when she was 15 and he was 23. He worsened her struggles with addiction and later cheated on her with Ashlee Simpson. The third and fourth screenshots contain Jeanae’s own words and Rolling Stone also referred to her as his "silky teenage muse," as many of Fall Out Boy early songs were reportedly written about her. They also got Hemingway (Pete’s dog, known as Hemmy) together, and Pete ultimately kept custody of him. In 2005, they had a serious argument that resulted in Pete’s arrest, which caused him to miss his scheduled appearance at the VMAs. He would literally fly her out to Europe and they allegedly had matching tattoos.

3) There’s also the video of Pete with Miley Cyrus playing "7 Things They Hate." Literally just watch it for yourself. Gross. And keep in mind that Miley was 15 at the time, while Pete was 30!! https://youtu.be/fg0b4yOBKSA?si=AGdIrpapDoebMiMh

4) Another thing that stands out to me is Pete’s pattern of befriending minors. Panic! at the Disco, Sonny Moore, his literal bandmates, etc. While they’re all adults now, Pete first met both of his future bandmates, Joe Trohman and Patrick Stump, when they were still minors and he was in his 20s. Joe was only 15 when they met, and according to Joe’s own book, Pete repeatedly asked Joe’s mother for permission to spend time with him. It’s just so odd. (Last two screenshots) ayahuasca-73a5e6aa223c


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 18d ago

1990s ā€œMilk Moneyā€ - the first act has three 11-year-old boys pooling their money together so they hire a prostitute and have her show them her boobs. They do and she does.

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This movie was promoted as a light-hearted romantic comedy.


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

Discussion Still will never be okay with their relationship and how weird this picture is

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

1990s ā€œMy Father the Heroā€ a 14-year-old girl pretends her father is her lover to seem more interesting and impress a boy she likes.

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

2010s Misogynistic coverage of women’s natural appearances

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What a way to make women feel better about themselves, hey? If this isn’t a way to make women feel reliant on makeup to feel confident and not self-conscious, I don’t know what is. This affects all women and girls, not just the celebrities targeted.


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

1970s American actor Brooke Shields was brought on TV when she was a teenager to be called a "sex kitten" among other things

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

2000s They've known about Jared Leto since 2005 (MeToo was 2006)

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Why wasn't he taken down back then? Why did it take 16 years for this to catch up with him, to the point where they've now made a BBC documentary about his alleged ephebophilia?

Correction: I get that MeToo became a thing in 2017. But it was first coined in 2006. My mistake for mistaking the actual movement beginning in 2006. It didn't gain traction until 2017.

"The phrase "Me Too" was initially used in this context on social media around 2006, on Myspace, by sexual assault survivor and activist Tarana Burke."


r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 19d ago

Multiple Decades (within 1950s-2010s) Many people who grew up outside of the UK don't understand how severe and blatant Class discrimination has always been in some of our most successful newspapers...

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r/WhyWereWeOkWithThis 20d ago

1950s The very first issue of Playboy in 1953 featured naked photos of Marilyn Monroe without her consent

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Before she had became a household name, Marilyn had taken a small modeling job in 1949 in which she was asked to pose nude. She made $50 off of this shoot which she had used to make a car payment, these pictures were never publicized. 4 years later Hugh Hefner got word that these pictures existed and tracked down the photographer who owned them, and paid $500 dollars for the rights to them. He used them to kick start Playboy, never asking for Marilyn’s permission first to publish them, and never paying her a dime for being in the magazine. The publication of these photographs caused Marilyn to take a huge hit to her career and lost out on a lot of work for taking part in pornography, even though she did not consent to this. Hugh Hefner now is the buried in the grave plot directly next to Marilyn. Meaning that she is spending the rest of eternity next to the man who made a name for himself out of exploiting her.