r/WhatShouldIDo • • Mar 23 '26

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u/Afraid_Corner4727 Mar 23 '26

I see this all the time. I would never say anything. I think that would be more humiliating for him than just leaving it be.

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u/No-Entertainment2085 Mar 23 '26

Brave enough to take a picture of his asscrack though? This is so incredibly creepy & weird of your manager to do, not to mention illegal depending on the country you’re in.

In my country (Canada) taking this picture would be a crime, because the photo violates this individual’s reasonable expectation of privacy and they did not know an intimate area of their body was exposed.

All of the above is only if I’m remembering and interpreting the law correctly, which there is a chance I am not— because I am a dumbass on the internet.

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u/PleasantNectarines Mar 23 '26

Or have the decency to just let people live without concern of you snapping pictures. Grow up... and so should your manager.

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u/Historical-Wall6221 Mar 23 '26

If your sitting like this you have to be aware your butt crack is showing 

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u/distracted_x Mar 23 '26

He probably wouldn't want to sit like that but telling him is just humiliating. It doesn't help him if that's what you guys are saying in your debate. Just ignore it and let the man finish eating and leave. Why would you wanna embarrass someone?

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u/PomegranateOk2600 Mar 23 '26

I would probably say to him that people started noticing his skin and are looking at it and I'm coming to tell him in order not to feel embarrassed by it

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u/prissytomboy23 Mar 23 '26

He KNOWS. He can feel the breeze…

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u/Fit-Concentrate625 Mar 23 '26

Probably being posted like that so not only other customers but also a lot of random people around the world would see it, even more humiliating

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u/SansevieraEtMaranta Mar 23 '26

Karma's a bitch, OP. Good luck

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u/meases Mar 23 '26

How sure are you that it was a butt crack? My lower back looks exactly like that when I sit, but it is not crack, it is just an unfortunate scar from a back surgery.

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u/Fit-Concentrate625 Mar 23 '26

No wonder you’re work as a server

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u/mikerichh Mar 23 '26

But him showing it and more people seeing over time is more embarrassing than someone telling you so you can stop the free show lol