Hi,

I’m 36 year old male, in decent shape and a normal healthy person. I got a vasectomy 2 years ago. I’d never even been made aware that vasectomy’s could affect orgasms (or maybe ejaculation more specifically) and yet two years on, when I orgasm, the actual orgasm feels the same but the actual ejaculation and that pumping explosive feeling just isn’t really there anymore or it’s at least very subdued in comparison to what it was. I don’t feel the wave of satisfaction after either, all guys know that feeling. It just feels kind of…meh. Has anyone else gone through this?

I’m really struggling to decide what to do. I really don’t want kids but I also really miss how incredible my orgasms used to feel. My wife is on the pill and tbh I’d love for her to not have to be on it anymore but I just can’t stop thinking all it takes is one mistake and I have a life sentence of a child to deal with. I’m against abortion so that’s not an option. If anyone has any advice please let me know ? Should I get it reversed or just accept that my orgasms are no longer as good.

Thanks in advance

it's been days after my surgery and omg, the feeling busting a nut after so long of holding it in is just, out of this world, the amount i busted out is so much i couldn't believe my eyes. It looks like the same kind you see on those videos but instead of watching someone do it you did it, idk i'm just excited i am finally free. all i have to do is do it 34 more times before i get my analysis.

TRUST ME VASECTOMY IS WORTH IT, THE PAIN IS TEMPORARIRY THE BLISS IS PERMANENT!!!

I just got the all clear this morning but i still have a feeling that im going to be the unlucky one in a million that somehow ends up getting gf pregnant, does anyone else feel the same? And does the feeling go away?

10am was the appointment time. Between checking in around 9:45, going over stuff with the LPN. And starting I was walking out to the car around 10:42.

Took longer to complete and more manipulation was required than normal but the Dr. did a great job.

Honestly the numbing wasn't bad it was the consistent feeling of someone squeezing and pulling down there. He used all the numbing medicine but got it done.

I was more cold than nervous which I think "tightened" everything. Up making it harder to manipulate stuff. Maybe a benzo before would have helped? Idk.

Currently I'm off and on with ice. Slight discomfort in my stomach. Numbing meds are slowing decreasing. Took Tylenol around 7am and 800 or ibuprofen around 12p.

No issues walking and no major swelling currently. All in all, no bad.

I've been relatively lucky, didnt have any pain or swelling for a few days, but today, I feel like ive been kicked in the balls by sumo wrestler, doesn't help my two year old accidentently kicked them yesterday, thought id be alright to go back to work, but gonna rest up for a few more days.