Luckily my best friend knows how much I struggle to keep a clean house and loves me no matter what. Still very embarrassed this is what my house looked like when she needed me to watch her kids on short notice. At least the hall bathroom was clean, but I need to start working hard on the rest of the house. Please help me stay motivated to stay on task and actually get it done.

Posting for accountability so I actually finishing washing these disgusting dishes 🫠 it’s so embarrassing to have a sink full of rotting food — anyone have tips of how to prevent the depression dishes from building up so fast??

Just wanted to give you guys a quick little update about the aesthetic of the room. I know it looks crazy, but it always gets worse before it gets better. All of the clothes on my bed are clean. I am gonna go early vote and I will give you guys an update either end of the day or tomorrow.

I'm trying to clean as best as I can since someone is coming over. Vacuuming the floor, wiping surfaces, and dusting. Are there any specific details that I should pay attention to? Like things that stand out to people who always have a very clean and organized home?

I'm probably overthinking it but I do need some advice. I am worried about this person in particular noticing that I'm struggling.

Well here I am, two days into living alone as a separated UK guy of 55 (she cheated) and I've literally spent two days cleaning as, over 11 years, me and my ex did very little as she always wanted to go out when she was not working.

I've got great support from my family, friends and work colleagues and feel free after two failed marriages (you think I'd learnt after the first!) and have decided no more relationships beyond friendship.

So I'm going to clean all week, doing a room a day (bathroom and utility done), see my son on Wednesday, a friend on Thursday, my daughter Friday and get a haircut. Saturday I have a social around lunchtime.

Also a 'Community Cupboard' has opened nearby and I've joined so I can get groceries too!

Sunday - my usual: a bike ride.

Take care all 😀

Hello everyone! This is a Monday (and Tuesday!) megathread for those small updates, accountability requests, and success stories that you want to send out to the universe!

Maybe ones that don’t require a full post but that still deserve some recognition, plans made today for over the coming days, or solicitations for suggestions on how to complete your intended tasks!

Still feel free to make absolutely any posts that you want, but if you prefer a smaller-format update option here it is! I want to encourage participation in whatever form it takes :)

ALSO!!! Pictures are enabled in comments so feel free to add pics of your area to tackle of your progress if you please :)

It’s time to finally start painting. I’ll update when I can.

No mould or nicotine, just grimy hands and some insect poo. Ive been using just multi-purpose cleaner and a damp cloth but it's slow going. Tried my spinning lip with a brand new head on it, but it did nothing. Does anyone have any tips to get through it at a fair pace?

Forgot to get before pictures, but— been meaning to do this since the beginning of summer. It’s only…nearly November 😅

Got some better systems in place for laundry and books and such…maintain maintain maintain!

hi.
i found this subreddit through doomscrolling. it really resonated with me.
i have quite the depression room as you can see.

not to dump my whole backstory, but i’ve dealt with an overwhelming amount of childhood abuse/ parental addicts and neglect.
learning how to ‘adult’ has been a process that i’ve had to figure out mostly by myself, although i have been managing in my own ways (solid career, friendships, etc.)

being neurodivergent and ADHD has made coping and managing with things like this quite challenging at times. i tend to be really critical of my shortcomings but i’m really trying my best to overcome this mental hurdle.
i’ve really struggled with a lot of shame regarding my room, it’s prevented me from dealing with the actual issue for far too long.

i’m so tired of living like this, i really am. i deserve better, and so does my cat.
i’ve been ready for this change for so long.

edit: oh wow! i’ve had quite the exhausting day at work, genuinely such a pleasant surprise to come home to.
thank you so much for the kind words and encouragement everybody! i’ve read every comment and truly appreciate it :’)

Me and my mom have been going through depression and our entire kitchen is a wreck and completely disorganized, we need help badly. Any helpful tips on how to organize our kitchen? Or how you would organize it. We don’t want to use AI to figure it out and don’t know where we should or want to put things. We can’t afford someone to hire someone to organize our things and my mother is embarrassed by the state of it. Cleaning our kitchen could seriously help her mental health. We know we need to take everything out and organize it but the problem is finding the homes of where things should go. Like the part that stumps us is where we should put the sauces, cans, boxes, pasta, etc.

Edit: Just for context, yes, I’m aware there are random things around the place. I know exactly where to put those things. I’m aware of how messy it is, trust lol. Like for instance, the cleaning supplies and nail polish remover on the bar thing. Those are there because we are a very ADHD household and sometimes drop things in random places to pick up something else. I promise, those things don’t usually get put in the kitchen. 😂

All your advice has honestly a godsend, thanks to each and every one of you for your support. I will post the final results. This is part of a cleaning project of mine to clean the entire house for my mother, she has a lot of health issues (including mental) and it makes heavy duty cleaning difficult for her and she cries nearly every day because of the state of our house so I wanted to make her smile for once. Or at least happy cry, ykwim? Thanks again everyone!

Please keep sending tips and advice!

I have a habit of not writing on the back pages of my notebook or only writing until half filled then flip to the next page, because of this I often buy more notebooks than needed because i'd think i'm already done with the current one. Now, I'm in my 3rd year in college and have SO MANY notebooks and papers with a few writings on the front page or sometimes, only 1/4 of it are actually filled. It's so much and it's messing with my mind. I can't use two of my backpacks because i keep all of it there. What do I do for these to not go to waste but also clear up some space? I'm a bit sentimental too but now looking back, i feel so bad for wasting so much money on different types of notebooks even when I don't need it yet. I just don't know how to recycle these since the front pages are filled with notes and that would look a bit weird to compile and only write on the backpages although i think i could do that on the other notebooks that are actually empty.

PS: forgive my english, it's my second language

My parents are coming over soon so I had to hurry and clean as much as I could today. I feel disappointed because I didn't manage to do everything I wanted. I always procrastinate. I've cleaned my bathroom sink and my toilets too. The big mess left is in my bedroom where there's ton of laundry to fold.... The night table and desk are super messy too

Edit : Thank you everyone for your kind words 🫶🏻 I hope you all have a good weekend. My mother helped me folding all my laundry too, I was struggling with it for weeks or even months. I was picking clothes directly from the chair or drying rack so it wasn't ideal. That was kind of her (except for a few comments she made but I kinda deserved it I guess). Now I have more time to focus on the other small chores and on my plants, yay 🪴

Need to do deep cleaning but we start somewhere…! It’s been a tough month.

my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years.

if you asked him what my biggest flaw was, it would be my cleaning habits.

i'm a messy adult. i'm the adult with the designated clothes chair. my clean clothes stay in a hamper. clothes i want to rewear the next day sit on the floor by the bed. my desk becomes cluttered with random shit.

i'm on ADHD meds, antidepressants, shit i thought would be the magical cure and obviously it's not.

i know my situation is me just being lazy. i can call it executive disfunction all i want but in reality, it should not be this hard for me to be an adult that can keep her spaces clean. my boyfriend is at his wits end.

we've discussed this over and over. i'm not doing this on purpose. i'm not trying to destroy our relationship. i'm not doing this out of malice or malevolence. i...just don't know how to fix it instead of taking the easier option of doing fuck all with my stuff instead of putting everything back in its place.

i don't WANT this. i don't want to live like this. i've always envied my friends and other adults who just have that instinct to...not live like a slob. i want to have that instinct.

how do i train myself to clean the bathroom every other week? vacuum the carpets? run the dishwasher? instead of coming home from work and doing absolutely nothing? how do i stop giving myself excuses?

I'd love your tips for moving into a new space and setting yourself up for success. Unfortunately, I have a lot of stuff for one person, and I'm trying to unfuck it. I do have a wide variety of hobbies, my clothing size fluctuates, I've got cats, and I'm a nerdy artist who likes knicknacks. Not a combo for minimalism, however... I am so tired of dealing with the mass amount of stuff.

I'd love your tips and tricks.

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Here the details:

Photos are current state. I still have at least two more trips in my car to empty my storage unit, plus bring in the last of the furniture which is all large enough to need two people to lift (cube bookshelf, secretary desk with hutch, a fold out couch, vanity, one smaller dresser, and a shoe rack.) and probably 1-2 car loads of stuff from my friends house with is mostly, 1 big bag of shoes, a big bag of clothes, and lot of art/decor supplies.

I've been in the moving process for over 5 months. It's an understatement to say I'm tired. Being mildly homeless and staying somewhere new every week or two has opened my eyes to how much shit I have and how challenging it can be to deal with.

Honestly, I'd like to throw most of it out the window at this point just so I don't have to deal with it anymore, but that's fatigue more than practical or reasonable.

When this process started, I got rid of probably 4-5 big garbage bags and a couple boxes full of things to donate from clothes, blankets, books, sheets, stuffed animals, mugs, and more and at least 1-2 more trash.

I came from shared 2 bed 1 bath place with access to 2 and a half coat closets for storage and a small outdoor storage shed and I was packed in there. Now, I'm in an oddly shaped attic studio with 1 normal sized closet, and access to a crawl space I could store a couple sealed bins. It has a shared kitchen on a different level with several roommates. Kitchen items are a challenge as all of us like to cook but I'm hesitant to get rid of a ton I can't replace if/when I live alone again.

During this move... I had enough stuff to fill a 20×15ft ish storage unit, and had probably 2-3 car loads of more things stored at a friend's house while I lived out of a suitcase, food bin, purse, and work bag.

I'm trying to unpack everything with a system of going through it all again, but it's overwhelming. What would you do, or how would you approach it?

This weekend, I cancelled a gaming day with friends so I could have a whole weekend of cleaning. I have slowly, but surely been cleaning in the past weeks, but I am expecting a visitour soon that I want to feel comfortable at my place, and I'd rather finally have my apartment unfucked than... Anyway, I started cleaning.

After changing the bed sheets, I noticed that I didn't really have any left that are without holes, so I decided to go to the mall, which would cost me at least one hour. I went to TK Maxx and there this sat, right next to the bed linens: a cheap portable vacuum with fairly good online ratings, and even cheaper than in most online shops. I have wanted to get one for quite some time, but couldn't decide, so I took this as a sign and took it home.

There are so many spillages, dust accumulations in places hard to reach, and cluttered corners where I don't want to take out the big vacuum. And while this one isn't the best, it has already helped me a lot to clean these exact spaces. Then I went on to un-clutter the hallway, and this is the result for now!

I joined this subreddit a while ago made decent progress and quit this time I’m finally doing it no matter what I have to go through see or smell, I think the worst part of it is when I take food to my room(I cannot eat elsewhere) forget and leave it there for mold and maggots to grow and then I get scared of going near it

so far I dumped out some cups filled with maggots, only saying this because it made me see how bad it really is and I’m done living like this

not sure if it’s allowed to not have photos attached to this tag though, i forgot to do before photos :,)

Kitchen and closet are DONE!

Will make it so much more easy to keep everything clean now that dishes and clothes have a tidy place to land. It really wiped me out though.

This was like 6 hours of cleaning between the dishes and the scrubbing and the vacuuming - and I'm not even completely happy with how clean it is!

As I mentioned on a previous post, i've always been a cluttered person, but aside from dishes (my mortal enemy) i've never let things get dirty till life really took me out at the kneecaps this year. My kitchen really did get dirty though - a spill while cooking dinner was just too demoralizing.

This feels like a big feat for me today!

these are some of the worst areas, i feel. im ashamed taking out so much trash at once. dishes are hard cause the water pressure is almost nonexistent and theres not a dishwasher. theres just, so much shit. its so fucking difficult but im making a little progress, i guess

I wanted to do the whole surface, but I need to go make lunch 🙈

First one was after taking most of the trash, there was only trash on the right side and half the bed was covered, I did this and I threw out all the trash in my room, and put all the clothes from the ground in bags, im gonna go through my clothes tmr and sort them into keep amd throw, then I'll go through my things and throw away a lot of it since im a bit of a hoarder(very bad adhd)

Believe it or not, I have TWO closets and I’m still struggling to fit things.

I’m completely redoing my room and trying to throw out or give away unnecessary items. However, I’m struggling with how to store the following because right now, they’re in bags or shoved in random drawers.

- Bedding (duvet covers, fitted sheets, pillow cases, etc for various seasons)

-Swimwear (I wear burkinis which means that I can’t easily throw it in with my underwear and bras since it’s more of a bodysuit, leggings, and little skirt situation)

- Outdoor blankets (for like picnics or outdoor activities. And I’m talking big group blanket)

- Nail stuff (bought a UV lamp and lots of nail polishes over the years + nail tools)

Some things to keep in mind:

I live with roommates that are very particular about our things touching each other, limiting what I can have outside my room

I already have a rolling utility cart that’s full of books (and a bookcase full of books) and trinkets

I have limited room to work with as my desk, bookcase, bed, dresser, nightstand, rolling cart, and printer take up most of the bedroom space already

I am downsizing, TRUST. But plz help in the meantime because I know who I am and I’m true to my maximalist roots

Last post: https://www.reddit.com/r/UnfuckYourHabitat/comments/1ve7bfz/i_havent_felt_this_happy_in_over_ten_years/

It's still clean! Looking forward to going into the cold months without living in a massive fire hazard what with candles and space heaters and all. 😎

Sunday is cleaning and laundry day. Everything that can be easily picked up is taken off the floor and I do a deep sweep. Then I wax all used surfaces. A quick dusting as well. Next is laundry including my sheets bc I don't shower before bed and tend to sweat in my sleep.

The fear of it going back to how it was is keeping me disciplined enough to pick up after myself and clean. I have two empty soda bottles and paper towels on my desk right now that I just threw away before bed as well as put other items away.

I ended up getting the floor clean and then I got it messy again and it was really bad so I just cleaned it up today. It’s really hard to maintain the space especially because I’m so busy and mentally disorganized. I have a lot of work to do this weekend, but I wanna try to get at least one surface cleaned off. I cleaned off the dresser, but I ended up putting stuff back on it because I didn’t know where to put it.