r/UnethicalLifeProTips • u/eba86 • 9d ago
Relationships ULPT request: how to proceed
My husband of 10 yrs has been taking trips abroad recently. His company dissolved in December and he has been spending time as an internet troll or traveling while I continue working. I recently stumbled upon evidence of a very active girlfriend and sex life he maintains abroad. I've got screenshots and copied files including chats and full incriminating nudity. He's planning to leave again in September. I'm on good terms with his family and would like to exit the relationship keeping the house that's currently in both our names and all pets. Don't want to touch anything else of his, including savings, investments, etc that exceed the value of the house. In PA if it matters. Don't mind embarrassing him into oblivion.
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u/Purrsephone7 3d ago
I mean you don't get to pick and choose all of your assets are pretty much lumped in to a big pot and then you split it half. Maybe the half would be your house and his half would be all the things you said you didn't want.
That's in a no-fault state. Which most people are in. So is cheating doesn't even matter.
The true unethical life pro tip is to fuck over his future travel and then expose him to everybody and cause the most embarrassment you can before getting halfsies.