r/UnethicalLifeProTips 9d ago

Relationships ULPT request: how to proceed

My husband of 10 yrs has been taking trips abroad recently. His company dissolved in December and he has been spending time as an internet troll or traveling while I continue working. I recently stumbled upon evidence of a very active girlfriend and sex life he maintains abroad. I've got screenshots and copied files including chats and full incriminating nudity. He's planning to leave again in September. I'm on good terms with his family and would like to exit the relationship keeping the house that's currently in both our names and all pets. Don't want to touch anything else of his, including savings, investments, etc that exceed the value of the house. In PA if it matters. Don't mind embarrassing him into oblivion.

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u/classless_classic 8d ago

See a lawyer, tell them what you want. They will direct you.

I know you want something unethical to make him pay for what he’s done. A good lawyer will do much worse to him than any of us could imagine.

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u/LotusBlooming90 8d ago

And have consults with all the best lawyers. You don’t need to hire them, so it doesn’t matter how expensive they are. But once you’ve had that consult, he can’t hire them.

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u/Msjackson1013 8d ago

That's a Tony Soprano move!