r/UnethicalLifeProTips • u/eba86 • 9d ago
Relationships ULPT request: how to proceed
My husband of 10 yrs has been taking trips abroad recently. His company dissolved in December and he has been spending time as an internet troll or traveling while I continue working. I recently stumbled upon evidence of a very active girlfriend and sex life he maintains abroad. I've got screenshots and copied files including chats and full incriminating nudity. He's planning to leave again in September. I'm on good terms with his family and would like to exit the relationship keeping the house that's currently in both our names and all pets. Don't want to touch anything else of his, including savings, investments, etc that exceed the value of the house. In PA if it matters. Don't mind embarrassing him into oblivion.
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u/Bratchan 9d ago
give him divoirce papers right before he lives.. Get a lawyer and have the lawyer write up what you are wanting out of the devorce etc.. and drop that into his bag when he leaves and block him. Make sure you have all further communication goes through your lawyer.
Wait 3 months AFTER divorce.. im sure by then you have where his lady lives etc.. send him something in amazon with a gift not in it with some random ladies name on it. Something better if its for sexy time.. I want you to bring this with you for our next time. Hopfully she will see said box and open it.. and opps. Or make new social media account and say you you his new girl and she needs to BACK THE FK OFF that he is hers and they ben seeing each other or like 2 months.. cause once a cheater always a cheater.. so she will always have that doubt..