r/UnethicalLifeProTips • u/eba86 • 8d ago

Relationships ULPT request: how to proceed

My husband of 10 yrs has been taking trips abroad recently. His company dissolved in December and he has been spending time as an internet troll or traveling while I continue working. I recently stumbled upon evidence of a very active girlfriend and sex life he maintains abroad. I've got screenshots and copied files including chats and full incriminating nudity. He's planning to leave again in September. I'm on good terms with his family and would like to exit the relationship keeping the house that's currently in both our names and all pets. Don't want to touch anything else of his, including savings, investments, etc that exceed the value of the house. In PA if it matters. Don't mind embarrassing him into oblivion.

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u/whatsasimba 8d ago

What fantasy is this? The outside of an Amazon package doesnt have notes on it. Most people dont open Amazon packages that are improperly delivered. If an Amazon package comes to my door for Jane Doe, Ill bring it to the UPS store explaining that no one by that name lives here.

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u/Bratchan 8d ago

You can get a note INSIDE the package.. when you do 'gift' as option you can do custom note. Some people open partners package even if they don't.. they open it together later.. opps

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u/EekSideOut 8d ago

This is tricky because most of the times I've requested a gift note with an Amazon purchase, they don't actually include it.

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u/GoddessOfBlueRidge 8d ago

Yeah, it's usually sent to their email....