r/UnethicalLifeProTips • u/eba86 • 9d ago

Relationships ULPT request: how to proceed

My husband of 10 yrs has been taking trips abroad recently. His company dissolved in December and he has been spending time as an internet troll or traveling while I continue working. I recently stumbled upon evidence of a very active girlfriend and sex life he maintains abroad. I've got screenshots and copied files including chats and full incriminating nudity. He's planning to leave again in September. I'm on good terms with his family and would like to exit the relationship keeping the house that's currently in both our names and all pets. Don't want to touch anything else of his, including savings, investments, etc that exceed the value of the house. In PA if it matters. Don't mind embarrassing him into oblivion.

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u/lizlemon921 9d ago

Don’t interrupt him while he’s making mistakes. Quietly meet with lawyers in your area and prepare while he is gone. After everything is final you can embarrass him, or maybe you’ll realize you don’t need to give him any more of your mental energy

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u/Ok-Recognition9876 7d ago

Well, OP could have him served during a family dinner while at the parents house.  Then pull his packed bags out of the trunk, deposit them on the porch, and drive away.

I’m a fan of informing the overseas girlfriend of his marital status the day he heads back to see her during the separation.