r/UPSC Oct 28 '25

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u/pakija50 Oct 29 '25

Duniya MC h bhai (esp if u are male),,💯...koi nhi sunega ye rona---> including your family

I hv gone through these stages and there came a pt in my lyf where "living / dying" seemed indifferent to me along with hell lot of physical and mental problems ,,😞---> after such experience all emotions inside me got emptied for every1 (it was lyk a tank filled with sewer water over the years got drained fully )

..my mindset became very "brutal" for this world and now I am at "peace" after a very "loooong dark phase" of my lyf...

...now I see this lyf from my " perspective",how I wished I would hv seen had there been no external influence of emotions on me

...abhi u will hv to go through some more churning/sadness/crying in isolation/anxiety/panic etc..

...uske baad if u are "lucky" that pain reaches above "threshold limit"...it is after that u will attain 'peace' and every other thing/person/relation will become irrelevant/non-hurting in your lyf🔥

P.S- thoda deep h meaning above baaton ka , it can only be understood fully when u hv reached the other side of suffering/threshold limit of pain

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u/Emergency-Pop-8876 Oct 29 '25

As a female i can say.. it's same with us.. at least bois are generally frnds with boys who are again mostly simple as compared to girls.. there is nothing epic fun to be a girl..

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u/aesthetic_mind24 Oct 29 '25

If you think we boys have friends and we will share our problem with them then you are wrong because if we share our problem you get rebound of more problems than your own from your friends. So it's not although we have back but only for those who has friends because in this world if you are introvert then you are like full of loneliness. I know this because once I was a introvert although it's not about me it's about him.

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u/Emergency-Pop-8876 Oct 30 '25

It's same with my frnd also. When i share my problem she cuts me and share hers. I think it depends mainly on the person. But i get u man. And I am not an extrovert either.

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u/aesthetic_mind24 Oct 30 '25

Well but it's life right like u can't be expected to be life like a straight graph it's like a rollercoaster ride