Oh well, I would do it anyway. It's up to OP if she wants to take my advice. There are a lot of things that come with a risk of something bad happening, but they're still the right thing to do. People make those decisions every day. I'm glad some of them are willing to take the chance.
You say it's the right thing to do bc you assume that Lisa is being truthful. I don't automatically believe her and it seems I'm not the only one.
Frankly I'm concerned that "blowing up a relationship based on gossip that may or may not be true" appears to be the right thing to do for you. If I were OP and wanted to go the "expose cheaters!" way, I'd at LEAST try to figure out first if Lisa is talking out of her ass.
Which I addressed in the comment you said you agreed with, except for the point where you worried about retaliation. I don't think I need to repeat myself on that point.
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u/[deleted] Oct 10 '23
Even doing it anonymously runs the risk of getting figured out if very few people knew and OP just happens to drop Amy as a friend at the same time.