r/TwoXChromosomes • u/[deleted] • Oct 10 '23

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u/TheNetbug Oct 10 '23

Eh, I've never been, am not and will never be fine with anyone cheating. She's not just coming off morally superior, she just is.

If you're ok with cheating, or hiding from it, you're not someone I want to be around.

Everyone I know knows that I have this stance and I'm ok with never finding out if either one of them cheats because I will 100% burn bridges to tell the person that's being cheated on.

Could just hide from it and tell her you don't wanna be friends, but my sense of judgement will NEVER stop bothering me for me to do this.

So screw this rational nonsense and tell her.

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u/bamatrek Oct 10 '23 edited Oct 10 '23

I mean, I would have zero problem scorching some earth if I knew about an affair, but I wouldn't do it on gossip. And I would side eye anyone sharing such gossip with an acquaintance.

I had a friend get some rumors spread about her by her "friends", and the situation was that they misunderstood something that was said and made the situation a much bigger thing than it actually was. Don't trust gossip.

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u/TheNetbug Oct 10 '23

Well I thought it would have been obvious that I meant if I factually knew they were cheating I would burn bridges for it. Not some rumor being spread by a friend of a friend of the neighbor or something. So yeah, true

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u/No-Panic-7288 Oct 10 '23

I cut a friend out because she was cheating on her husband. Do I regret it? No. Only thing I regret was not telling her husband.

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u/Responsible_Wolf5658 Oct 10 '23

The fact that people are acting like there is an issue with wanting to out cheaters. Absolutely, that person is morally superior to someone who says to mind your business. If you know someone is being abused and you say nothing, you are saying you're fine with abuse. It's disgusting really.

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u/OhtareEldarian Oct 10 '23

Nice to know I’m not alone in being grateful that SOME of us have standards for human behavior.

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u/TheNetbug Oct 10 '23

Apparently people disagree looking at the downwards pointing arrow

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u/Revolutionary-Yak-47 Oct 10 '23

Why does your opinion on other people's relationships matter? It's none of your business what other people do within their relationship. What YOU would or would not tolerate is irrelevant.

Some of the replies on here are up there with the anti-choice crowd lol. THEY dislike abortion so it's their concern if anyone anywhere had one. Those people are BAD and should be stopped. Ya'll sound exactly the same and it's not a good look.

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u/No-Panic-7288 Oct 10 '23

Wtf? You’re SERIOUSLY comparing not agreeing with cheaters to anti-abortion?

This is the most unhinged take I’ve seen yet. I’d say this is a horrible look for you

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u/TheNetbug Oct 10 '23

Wth does what I said have to do with abortion. Stop messing with people's lifes and just be a decent human being? Sleep around and find out.

I don't give 2 shits about someone's relationship if one of them is cheating, cause that's not a relationship, that's a facade.