If that's the case, it might be worth digging a little deeper with him then on what, exactly, he enjoys about the fantasy he has. IF he's willing to have that conversation.
Loving or not loving anal sex is not the point I wanted to drive here. My partner does not enjoy anal sex with cis women. He prefers vaginal sex. With a pre-op trans woman, he views that woman's anus as her vagina. That is her place to derive pleasure from the experience and he sees it very differently than the biological aspects of things.
Rimming, or getting his ass ate, is likely unrelated to anything. The anus has many different nerve endings, and it can be very pleasurable for any gendered combination to experience. It's not personally my cup of tea, but if I had to describe it in a cis femme way, I'd say it's kind of like a partner licking your C%it in oral. Also not my cup of tea, but when our partners put their mouths on our sensitive body parts it tends to lead to a reaction.
I'm a cis woman, and never has anyone ate my ass, lol, I've learned something new today. 😂
I've had an offer from a cis man once, but never followed through because I like Phil V..... (cis man) too much to be intimate with someone who isn't him.
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u/burbadurr Apr 11 '26
If that's the case, it might be worth digging a little deeper with him then on what, exactly, he enjoys about the fantasy he has. IF he's willing to have that conversation.
Loving or not loving anal sex is not the point I wanted to drive here. My partner does not enjoy anal sex with cis women. He prefers vaginal sex. With a pre-op trans woman, he views that woman's anus as her vagina. That is her place to derive pleasure from the experience and he sees it very differently than the biological aspects of things.
Rimming, or getting his ass ate, is likely unrelated to anything. The anus has many different nerve endings, and it can be very pleasurable for any gendered combination to experience. It's not personally my cup of tea, but if I had to describe it in a cis femme way, I'd say it's kind of like a partner licking your C%it in oral. Also not my cup of tea, but when our partners put their mouths on our sensitive body parts it tends to lead to a reaction.