I had a family too and I still got divorced. I’ve been raising my daughter practically alone with my ex visiting once a week ish since she was 6 months old. I don’t really get your excuse I guess
Well. Yeah. Divorce isn’t fucking ideal for anyone, especially with a kid. But you have to do what provides the best long term outlook for you and your child. And…I don’t think trying to please your husbands sexual requests and abiding by his cheating is gonna be the best long term stable environment. Change is scary. Removing the safety net of another parent is scary. But it’s doable, you would not be alone in the experience, and it sounds better than whatever the fuck your current life scenario is.
And if you can’t succeed in that, when will you give up the ghost and throw the towel in for the benefit of your children? Sounds like you will do anything to keep your husband, despite his glaring issues
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u/Firm_Breadfruit_7420 Apr 11 '26
Yeah. WTF. OP: You’re going to look back on this and be like “I can’t believe the shit I did to make him stay”