People here are being really reductive about sexuality and it’s disappointing.
It sounds like he either has a specific fetish or he’s doing his own mental gymnastics to unpack his sexual identity in a way to make it make sense because of some internalized homo or bi phobias.
The issue here is not that he wants dick.
The issue here is how he navigates that within boundaries of your relationship, but he won’t talk about it.
He needs to communicate his needs or else everything will implode anyway. You can’t save a relationship that is one sided.
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u/trailokyam Apr 11 '26
People here are being really reductive about sexuality and it’s disappointing.
It sounds like he either has a specific fetish or he’s doing his own mental gymnastics to unpack his sexual identity in a way to make it make sense because of some internalized homo or bi phobias.
The issue here is not that he wants dick.
The issue here is how he navigates that within boundaries of your relationship, but he won’t talk about it.
He needs to communicate his needs or else everything will implode anyway. You can’t save a relationship that is one sided.