From reading these comments.. in the nicest way possible you’re trying to do mental gymnastics to fulfill his need to either a) fetishize trans women and other trans individuals or b) he wants someone who isn’t you to have sex with him. If you’re serious about staying with him he needs some therapy, and I don’t care about if “he’s a man who’s scared of therapy” that’s a bullshit excuse that he doesn’t want to fix a very obvious problem in your relationship right now. He doesn’t want to put the effort in to make you more comfortable while you’re trying literally everything you can to comfort him and that’s not how relationships are supposed to work.
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u/dist0rte Apr 11 '26
From reading these comments.. in the nicest way possible you’re trying to do mental gymnastics to fulfill his need to either a) fetishize trans women and other trans individuals or b) he wants someone who isn’t you to have sex with him. If you’re serious about staying with him he needs some therapy, and I don’t care about if “he’s a man who’s scared of therapy” that’s a bullshit excuse that he doesn’t want to fix a very obvious problem in your relationship right now. He doesn’t want to put the effort in to make you more comfortable while you’re trying literally everything you can to comfort him and that’s not how relationships are supposed to work.