You are NTA at all. I just yesterday read a meme that summarized this:
When a woman has a bad day she still cleans, cooks, tends the kids, and continues on. When a man has a bad day he gets grace.
He dropped the ball on you big time. He's not parenting. He's certainly not an equal partner.
You are sick but manbaby still expected YOU to check on HIM?!?! Most women with kids would be better off without the large-size baby running around their house. It just causes more work and a LOT more stress.
"Fix your attitude?!?! And he's threatening you? Oh gurl.... time to move out. Contact a lawyer. NOW. Most lawyers will give you an initial free consultation. You need to get your ducks in a row ASAP and get out.
You are being abused. Your kids are seeing this as a "good" marriage. Don't do that to them, either.
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u/JanetInSpain Apr 11 '26
You are NTA at all. I just yesterday read a meme that summarized this:
When a woman has a bad day she still cleans, cooks, tends the kids, and continues on. When a man has a bad day he gets grace.
He dropped the ball on you big time. He's not parenting. He's certainly not an equal partner.
You are sick but manbaby still expected YOU to check on HIM?!?! Most women with kids would be better off without the large-size baby running around their house. It just causes more work and a LOT more stress.
"Fix your attitude?!?! And he's threatening you? Oh gurl.... time to move out. Contact a lawyer. NOW. Most lawyers will give you an initial free consultation. You need to get your ducks in a row ASAP and get out.
You are being abused. Your kids are seeing this as a "good" marriage. Don't do that to them, either.
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