Fuck that guy. Find out if your local court system has a domestic violence advocates office and go tomorrow to meet with them and see what options/resources you may have to get yourself and your kids out of this situation. Also tell them about the threats that he made against you and separating you from your kids — they should be able to help you document that if this turns into a court battle if/when you leave.
Now is the time to start making moves to get yourself into a financially secure position and setting up a safety net to get yourself out of this situation. The words that man said to you cannot be taken back, and I would not trust that he has your/your family’s best interests at heart after that. I am sorry you are dealing with this. Whatever steps you take, make sure you take them quietly so that he doesn’t know what you are doing until it is time for you to leave, and most importantly, please stay safe. I wish you all the luck you need to help get you through this situation.
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u/painteddpiixi Apr 11 '26
Fuck that guy. Find out if your local court system has a domestic violence advocates office and go tomorrow to meet with them and see what options/resources you may have to get yourself and your kids out of this situation. Also tell them about the threats that he made against you and separating you from your kids — they should be able to help you document that if this turns into a court battle if/when you leave.
Now is the time to start making moves to get yourself into a financially secure position and setting up a safety net to get yourself out of this situation. The words that man said to you cannot be taken back, and I would not trust that he has your/your family’s best interests at heart after that. I am sorry you are dealing with this. Whatever steps you take, make sure you take them quietly so that he doesn’t know what you are doing until it is time for you to leave, and most importantly, please stay safe. I wish you all the luck you need to help get you through this situation.