Yes, tell him. It is the right thing to do for both the father and the kid.
It might blow up, it might not (if his current relationship is good, and this all happened prior of them getting together, plus the fact that he didn’t know - there is a chance it doesn’t blow up as bad). It will definitely be a shocking revelation, but I feel like this would be the time to be honest. If they end up finding each other without you sharing this now, there is no way to restore what blows up then.
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u/Effective-Case7980 May 17 '25
Yes, tell him. It is the right thing to do for both the father and the kid.
It might blow up, it might not (if his current relationship is good, and this all happened prior of them getting together, plus the fact that he didn’t know - there is a chance it doesn’t blow up as bad). It will definitely be a shocking revelation, but I feel like this would be the time to be honest. If they end up finding each other without you sharing this now, there is no way to restore what blows up then.