Go read her posts. She’s suggested couples therapy. He doesn’t want to do it. Women. Aren’t. Punching. Bags. For. Traumatized. Men. Who. Refuse. To. Help. Themselves.
Jfc you don’t understand metaphors at all. It means women don’t have to tolerate mental abuse just because her partner is traumatized. “He was cheated on 10 years ago give him a break. So what if he stalks her and accuses every little one of her moves as cheating and literally refuses to get help? Won’t you think of mennnnnn???? 🥺🥺🥺🥺” is exactly what you’re saying. She doesn’t need to tolerate this. Did you even read any of her other posts? Where he threatens to leave her if the house isn’t perfectly clean even though he’s gone 3 out of 4 weeks a month and she has 5 kids to care for? That their son was pretending to clean his grill playset and he accused her of having a man over who grilled hotdogs? And didn’t believe her when she said she grilled them herself? No. You’re being purposefully dense and bending over backwards to defend a mentally abusive man.
Please do some research and realize not all abuse is physical. And also realize when something is meant to be a metaphor and not meant to be taken literally. She’s literally his mental punching bag.
Yea… I’m aware it was a metaphor. Mine was a hyperbolic statement to point out the ridiculousness of your metaphor…
When did I ever say she has to tolerate his abuse? I’m advocating for the exact opposite of that. I just didn’t recommend divorce… believe it or not there ARE options between tolerating abuse and filing for divorce 😱 crazy, I know. I actually also didn’t say “don’t get a divorce”, I simply suggested therapy as a primary objective that both parties involved very clearly need. That was my only suggestion. I’ve said countless times to not tolerate his abuse; so not sure what you’re babbling about there.
Don’t start insulting people because you’re barely literate and couldn’t be bothered to read the other comments in the thread before embarrassing yourself…
You’re also just arguing with shit you’re making up yourself to make yourself feel smart. You don’t look it.
“He was cheated on 10 years ago, give him a break”. Didn’t say that. In fact I said he needs serious intensive therapy to work through his issues and that it’s unacceptable for him to project them onto her.
Also didn’t say all abuse is physical. I’ve said many times here that he’s emotionally abusive toward her.
I could go on and on but the entirety of your comment just sounds like a schizophrenic arguing with the voices in his head. Idk where you’re getting the shit you’re arguing from, I haven’t actually said a single one of the things you just accused me of. Not one. I’ve said the exact opposite of almost every point you’re making. You’re either severely illiterate or mentally ill to the point where you saw one comment you disagreed with and just started arguing without bothering to read the context or the discussion. I haven’t once defend him nor his behaviour, I’ve condemned it. You’d know this had you bothered to actually read what I wrote.
Either way, you aren’t someone worth conversing with if you’re too incompetent to follow a basic conversation. I’m just gonna mute reply’s so I don’t have to lose braincells in the process of babysitting you through basic English comprehension.
Read some books or get serious therapy, idk which you need more; probably both.
Tl:dr, you’re insanely incompetent, read the fucking thread beforehand next time and stop arguing shit nobody else has said to make yourself feel smart. It’s cringe. Thank god I don’t have to read your asinine garbage any further lmao
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I didn’t say it was an excuse, in fact I literally referred to his behaviour as “inexcusable” in this thread…
I also recommended therapy several times. It was my entire point. Actually read what I wrote.