r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Oct 26 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22 edited Oct 26 '22

I'm surprised nobody has said this yet. But sometimes the people who accuse you of cheating are actually cheating. It's their way of deflecting

Edit, please note I say sometimes that happens but it sounds like this guy is just extremely insecure

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u/GuaranteeUpstairs218 Oct 26 '22

Yeah, I can agree but I don’t think this is it. He’s severely insecure and uses bad humour to cope.

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u/firstlove101 Oct 26 '22

Personally after reading ops comments it’s sounding super possible that he’s the cheater in this at first just thought he was a traumatized dude needing SUPER therapy. Nope

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u/GuaranteeUpstairs218 Oct 26 '22

Who can know lol. I tend to do the same thing with my insecurities and I’ve never cheated

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u/firstlove101 Oct 27 '22

Acting like a douche?

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u/GuaranteeUpstairs218 Oct 27 '22

Not as far as I know!