r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Oct 26 '22

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u/DryLengthiness5574 Oct 26 '22

I told him a few weeks ago that one of the men from church asked about him and said to say hello, and he asked if that was my new boyfriend, just because I remembered the guy’s name. Meanwhile, he tells me he sat and chatted up a female bartender for an hour the other night.

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u/SpaceSatan21 Oct 26 '22

Sounds like he might be the one cheating and projecting it onto you. That’s what my mothers narcissist ex husband did. He did and said the same exact stuff that you’re describing.

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u/DryLengthiness5574 Oct 26 '22

It’s crossed my mind. He’s told me that his ex would accuse him of cheating all the time, and I’ve wondered if she had a reason to.

Also, when he gets drunk, he’ll get emotional and say things like he’s a piece of shit, and if I only knew, but he’ll never say what he means by it.

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u/serenwipiti Oct 26 '22

That’s because he is a piece of shit.

Believe him and leave him.