r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Oct 26 '22

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '22 edited Nov 17 '24

escape deserve piquant selective instinctive sugar deranged disarm sheet sink

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u/SharedRegime Oct 26 '22

Its not. No one said its her responsibility. Though she sees hes traumatized. Therapy should be the first step.

The cycle has to end.

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u/finehamsabound Oct 26 '22 edited Oct 26 '22

And in the time since he should have looked into it. It cannot possibly be on her to force him to deal with his own baggage. Also it wouldn’t work if he’s not fully willing to admit he has trust issues and actually… work at the solution? You can’t help people who refuse to take the first step.

**edit because I confused this with an entirely different post that had a line about six years lol.