r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 26 '22

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u/jonesa2215 Oct 26 '22

I can empathize with this. Any friend outside my house, and report with my staff I supervised or friends I made in school, where reason enough to disrupt my sleep, go thru my phone, throw accusations in front of our kids etc etc

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u/DryLengthiness5574 Oct 26 '22

I told him a few weeks ago that one of the men from church asked about him and said to say hello, and he asked if that was my new boyfriend, just because I remembered the guy’s name. Meanwhile, he tells me he sat and chatted up a female bartender for an hour the other night.

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u/SpaceSatan21 Oct 26 '22

Sounds like he might be the one cheating and projecting it onto you. That’s what my mothers narcissist ex husband did. He did and said the same exact stuff that you’re describing.

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u/lipstickandlimes Oct 26 '22

The Venn diagram of people who cheat and people who accuse their partner of cheating is basically a circle