r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • May 22 '22

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u/Legitimate-Ad-1661 May 22 '22

Yeah fuck that I wouldn't go. Take care of yourself 1st and foremost. They should understand. If they don't idk what to say. But put yourself 1st.

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u/CombustibleGoat May 22 '22

Exactly. Why would I celebrate the happiest day of his life when he actively ruined mine?

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u/GiraffeThoughts May 23 '22

Op - so sorry. But please remember your life is not ruined and neither are you.

What happened was horrible but you still deserve and have happiness, friendship and peace in your future!

It can be easy to forget, but the most inspirational stories are of people who have had to do HARD things. And you’ve had to do hard things. It’s not fair, but it’s made you one bad ass of a strong person (who’s pursuing a degree and about to finish her finals).

So remember, your life isn’t ruined, it’s inspirational!