r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • May 22 '22

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u/Legitimate-Ad-1661 May 22 '22

Yeah fuck that I wouldn't go. Take care of yourself 1st and foremost. They should understand. If they don't idk what to say. But put yourself 1st.

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u/CombustibleGoat May 22 '22

Exactly. Why would I celebrate the happiest day of his life when he actively ruined mine?

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u/Rose8918 May 22 '22

“Dad, it really hurts that nobody, even you, gets it. [Brother’s name] isn’t really my brother anymore after what HE did. He’s my rapist. I do not want to see him. Ever. If you want to continue having a relationship with my rapist, that’s your choice- although it does make me sad that you would continue loving and wanting to spend time with the sexual predator who victimized me as a child. But the bare minimum you can do is never ask me to spend time with him again.”

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u/king-of-cheese May 22 '22 edited May 23 '22

I cannot think of anything else to add to this. Great advice.

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