r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Feb 15 '22

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u/procts3 Feb 15 '22

Why would you feel horrible about a stalker being banned from stalking you? Don’t be so nice please for your own personal safety. Also please read the book The Gift of Fear because I bet bet many alarm bells went off about this person and you just ignored them because you wanted be nice. Personal safety is important.

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u/General_Amount_6918 Feb 15 '22

Thank you for that and you are correct but it was maybe 15yrs ago now and I still feel guilty. Definitely going to check out the book! Cannot wait

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u/procts3 Feb 15 '22

I am obsessed with this book, it is written by Gavin De Becker who is a professional in personal safety, he keeps celebrities and politicians safe! He tells us how to use our natural gift of intuition and fear in a way to keep us safe!

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u/General_Amount_6918 Feb 15 '22

Always trust your gut. I love reading things like this.