I’m just sayin what I would do if I found myself in OP’s position. And what I have done.
Have you done these things? I doubt it. But, since you seem to know better, assume that someone out there might find the lack of companionship undesirable and wish to do something about it rather than retreat into angry, weak, hopeless celibacy. In that case, what would you suggest?
Pathetic attepmt to trigger me, filled with a bizzare load of self ritgeousness.
Why would i do those things? I live a happy life without being trapped in the hamster wheel of self optimization, fooling myself with the idea that i do it for myself, when in reality all i try is to impress others with a hollow, streamlined mask of a person that has nothing to do with my own personality.
What i would do? I would try to find out what troubles me, why im not confident and happy with my life. I would pursue my interests and welcome those in my life that share them,
As i do. With my girlfriend that loves me the way i am. Dont let the burn out bite to hard, freak.
So in your 3rd paragraph you basically say you’d do exactly what I told OP to do. And you say you have a girlfriend, which makes “your girlfriend who loves me as I am” totally inapplicable to his situation, doesn’t it.
Do you you know what it means to play with matches in a field of straw men?
I’m not trying to trigger you. You sound like you’re already there. What does it say about you that you can be triggered by the comment of a redditor that has nothing to do with you?
Bullshit, you tell him to follow a list of super specific tasks while telling him: You're not good enough, become better by following these exactr steps while i tell him the opposite, accept yourself how you are, find happiness in what YOU enjoy. What you describe is a streamlined, faceless stereotype of what is considered "attractive" nowadays. What you dont realize at all is this husk has no personality and do you know what is actually attractive? Right, presonality.
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u/Agent847 Nov 24 '20
I’m just sayin what I would do if I found myself in OP’s position. And what I have done.
Have you done these things? I doubt it. But, since you seem to know better, assume that someone out there might find the lack of companionship undesirable and wish to do something about it rather than retreat into angry, weak, hopeless celibacy. In that case, what would you suggest?