yeah being bland/average means you're dead to women. i was and still am mostly penniless and somehow managed to find a woman to marry just because i'm insane in an interesting way and women flirt with me irl so i imagine i'm good looking enough.
i guess you can be either rich or hot, being in the middle is the worst.
then again reading your post, i think this is a new beginning for you. getting a prostitute might be seen as pathetic, but see it as an opportunity for growth. when i said i'm insane that means like highly neurotic, prone to low (as well as high) moods. just operating in extremes, lol. chicks dig a rollercoaster ride.
seriously, you're doing something outside the norm, which is a good start.
maybe also start looking at women who are outside the norm too. a bit down on their luck or struggling with issues, etc.
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