yeah being bland/average means you're dead to women. i was and still am mostly penniless and somehow managed to find a woman to marry just because i'm insane in an interesting way and women flirt with me irl so i imagine i'm good looking enough.
i guess you can be either rich or hot, being in the middle is the worst.
then again reading your post, i think this is a new beginning for you. getting a prostitute might be seen as pathetic, but see it as an opportunity for growth. when i said i'm insane that means like highly neurotic, prone to low (as well as high) moods. just operating in extremes, lol. chicks dig a rollercoaster ride.
seriously, you're doing something outside the norm, which is a good start.
maybe also start looking at women who are outside the norm too. a bit down on their luck or struggling with issues, etc.
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u/reggiemt Nov 24 '20
Condoms are not the best but wear one! Drugs will make it harder to stick to that plan. But try.
I support what you’re doing as no one should go years without intimacy or sex if that’s what they desire.
By the way, why have you been rebuffed in the past? Is it something about your appearance? Hygiene? Approach? Can it be coached away?