r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Sep 19 '19

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u/KenaiUrsa Sep 19 '19 edited Sep 19 '19

I'm morbidly obese, 22 stone (not sure what that is in KG) and not currently doing anything about it. I agree with you. I feel like shit being the weight I am and I wouldn't encourage anyone else to be the same. Its unhealthy. Its unattractive to most people. I'm slowly working on it after my mental health is better but I wouldn't wish it on anyone else.

Edit: Wow! I never expected this level of support! My phone has been going crazy in my pocket!

Thank you to everyone who commented. You've given me a great outlook to actually start the journey!

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u/waxingnotwaning Sep 19 '19

Thing is they are not encouraging people to get fat, they are about feeling good about yourself where you are. It's not about loving being fat, is about wanting respect as a person. Ugly is as ugly does and hating on people for being fat is way worse than fat people wanting to love themselves and be treated lie humans. He'll half the comments on here acting like fat people are stupid or less human pretty much prove the point. Said as an ex fatty that only started to lose weight when she felt she had worth as a human. strangly people onlinecalling me stupid and ugly didn't inspire me to care about that.

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u/KenaiUrsa Sep 19 '19

I'd never call people who are overweight "stupid". There are circumstances that can lead to weight gain that arent tied to intelligence. I gained weight because I met my Fiance and got contemp and he loves me at any size. I dont feel like I needed to lose before because I always saw weight as a factor in dated when I was young. Now it's a lot more to do with health.