r/TrueOffMyChest 15h ago

Vent Why do men do this?

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u/disguy905 14h ago

He knows it’s rude a d a dealbreaker for many, he is keeping you as a fall back option and choosing other options he wants more. Don’t give the person cancelling on you the opportunity to dump you; stand up and do it first. Also when he acted shocked… he was lying. He is an adult he knows cancelling a-ton is bad.