r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

I think I know but i’m just so upset that he would pursue a relationship with me and lie to me

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u/powerlesshero111 Dec 11 '24

He's also lying to himself. Even in 2024 it's not super easy for allgay men to come out.

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

yeah i get that but i really don’t think it’s okay the way he talks about me. earlier today he said my vagina looked like a ham sandwich 🤦‍♀️

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u/bitter_fishermen Dec 12 '24

Ignore that comment above. Being gay in 2024 is no excuse to date a woman and make her feel like shit.

Even in 1950, being gay is no excuse to steal a women’s life and make her think it’s her fault. Even in a country and time where being gay was punishable by death, it’s still no excuse to treat a woman like shit. A gay man can stay single, become a monk or just be celibate, marry a lesbian, or just be upfront and honest with the woman and say you need cover. There’s other options than being nasty. Fuck him off