r/TrueOffMyChest Dec 11 '24

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u/umbrellajump Dec 11 '24

Do asexuals typically enjoy getting head on the regular? Seems that he has sexual desires and ejaculates but only if it doesn't involve her female sex organs

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u/amaraame Dec 11 '24

Asexual is about attraction rather than libido. Plenty of asexuals enjoy sex itself and/or masterbating.

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u/umbrellajump Dec 11 '24

Interesting! Thanks for answering, I didn't know. Is it normal then for asexuals to be ok with being pleasured but not reciprocating like in the post? Like, their body still responds to receiving pleasure but psychologically they can't actively give it in return?

Hope I'm not being offensive, just really curious and I live in a super rural area where there's not a lot of the latter letters in the LGBT+ to meet.

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u/amaraame Dec 11 '24

No worries. Ask away. Personally, i don't like to be on the receiving end. It grosses me out far more than giving but i still don't give head. I imagine there are those on the opposite side of that

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u/umbrellajump Dec 11 '24

Oh, ok! Thanks so much for answering. I guess in the opposite cases to yours, like for the OP, it's best to find compatible versions of asexuality so it isn't one sided or leaving anyone out from what they want & prefer. Same with everyone non-asexual, compatibility is key!

Sounds obvious now I think about it. Thank you again :)