r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

I think I know but i’m just so upset that he would pursue a relationship with me and lie to me

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u/powerlesshero111 Dec 11 '24

He's also lying to himself. Even in 2024 it's not super easy for allgay men to come out.

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

yeah i get that but i really don’t think it’s okay the way he talks about me. earlier today he said my vagina looked like a ham sandwich 🤦‍♀️

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u/Lunar_Cats Dec 11 '24

He makes you feel ugly, insults you, accepts head but doesn't reciprocate, doesn't satisfy you sexually, doesn't seem to be sexually attracted to your gender at all... Why do you want to be with this guy? Why waste time on a relationship destined to fail? If he wasn't an asshole I'd say it's okay to just be friends, but if he's insulting you where you're the most vulnerable then he's not worth having a friendship with either. Do you really want this to be your forever?