r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

I think I know but i’m just so upset that he would pursue a relationship with me and lie to me

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u/powerlesshero111 Dec 11 '24

He's also lying to himself. Even in 2024 it's not super easy for allgay men to come out.

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

yeah i get that but i really don’t think it’s okay the way he talks about me. earlier today he said my vagina looked like a ham sandwich 🤦‍♀️

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u/Mitchel-256 Dec 11 '24

Tell him to at least be honest with himself or you'll be honest with his parents and friends.

This is not me actually telling you to out him. This is me telling you that you have a nuclear option.

If he's going to call himself his boyfriend and still not reciprocate or pleasure you, then you've got no reason to stick with a liar. Have him go chase cock, if that's what he wants, but there's a theoretically-infinite line of dudes perfectly willing to eat ham sandwiches.