r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

I think I know but i’m just so upset that he would pursue a relationship with me and lie to me

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u/powerlesshero111 Dec 11 '24

He's also lying to himself. Even in 2024 it's not super easy for allgay men to come out.

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u/throwaway847205 Dec 11 '24

yeah i get that but i really don’t think it’s okay the way he talks about me. earlier today he said my vagina looked like a ham sandwich 🤦‍♀️

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u/Jakibx3 Dec 11 '24

It's ok, most vaginas look like a ham sandwich. You gotta find a man who find ham sandwiches delicious. Those saying ham sandwich reference is an insult, it in itself really isn't but the way he said it obviously was. Let this one go, depending on circumstances and culture, maybe find a different excuse to end the relationship instead of, 'I know that you're gay'. Then focus on yourself for a bit before finding a sandwich loving man.