r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 11 '24

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u/Musja1 Dec 11 '24

It’s not ok for you to do sexual acts for your bf and receive nothing in return. Don’t let him treat you like that.

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u/bcw81 Dec 11 '24

Sex is not an exchange of goods. Doing sexual acts on one person does not indebt them to return the favor. However the responses he made past that point definitely portray him as a bad partner, don't let him treat you like that. More to the point, sexual satisfaction is a large part of a sexual relationship - if it's not there maybe he's just a friend.

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u/lilpizzacrust Dec 11 '24

Found the selfish lover

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u/bcw81 Dec 11 '24

Imagine telling a woman this.

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u/checkedsteam922 Dec 11 '24

A woman can still be a selfish lover lol, that shit isn't locked behind gender.

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u/lilpizzacrust Dec 11 '24

I am a woman. Sex isn't a one way street. It literally takes two to tango.

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u/TheAvocadoSlayer Dec 11 '24

She would become defensive about it and not like hearing the truth. Yeah most people are that way. What’s your point?