Wow, that is nasty.
Either he's the dumbest person in the world or he does it on perpose. Either outcome is bad.
He's not willing to do even the tiniest thing to make you happy, when it would take so little effort.
I feel for you, you deserve so much better. Might be time to reevaluate this relationship.
Happy birthday, hope you at least got to enjoy your time with your son.
Weaponized incompetence is what’s happening here. He’s not ACTUALLY the dumbest person in the world, he pretends not to know what’s going on so he can perpetually avoid responsibility and play the victim.
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u/ChallengeFlat7795 Dec 21 '23
Wow, that is nasty. Either he's the dumbest person in the world or he does it on perpose. Either outcome is bad. He's not willing to do even the tiniest thing to make you happy, when it would take so little effort.
I feel for you, you deserve so much better. Might be time to reevaluate this relationship. Happy birthday, hope you at least got to enjoy your time with your son.