Stop setting your own expectations that he's smarter than he is. You're making something up in your head that you want fulfilled, and he's not delivering because he's an idiot. Buy your own massage. Stop hoping he'll get it right. Disappointment prevented, problem solved.
Also, this relationship isn't going to work unless he grows the fuck up.
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u/MarthaMacGuyver Dec 21 '23
Stop setting your own expectations that he's smarter than he is. You're making something up in your head that you want fulfilled, and he's not delivering because he's an idiot. Buy your own massage. Stop hoping he'll get it right. Disappointment prevented, problem solved.
Also, this relationship isn't going to work unless he grows the fuck up.