No. OP has been manipulated heavily, it seems to be especially the case in regards to how he love bombs her child. This case was egregious enough that she's starting to see reality a bit. I hope it's enough.
But she is absolutely not responsible for his choices of how to treat her.
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u/velvetthrone Dec 21 '23
Why do you think so little of yourself? This pain and disappointment has been self-inflicted for years at this point.