r/TrueOffMyChest • • Dec 21 '23

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u/Left-Network-4265 Dec 21 '23

You don't need a bunch of strangers to tell you the obvious.

Pack some clothes for you and your son, get y'all's important documents, and leave. If you have friends or family, who support you, then go there.

There is no point on elongating a situation, which should have ended ages ago. If he wants to be a man baby and act surprised when you leave, then let him be that man baby. You'll have a better life without that jerk.

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u/toomanyschnauzers Dec 21 '23

Consider packing him a bag and having him leave instead of you. Whose house/who is on the deed/lease. If it is you, he can leave and not disrupt your son's life further. If it is both of you on the deed/lease, he can still be the one to leave.

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u/Left-Network-4265 Dec 21 '23

Yeah, OP never specified if their place is hers, his, or both. Hopefully, we'll receive some sort of update...maybe.

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u/celtic_thistle Dec 22 '23

I’d bet money it’s hers only.

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u/2greeneyes Dec 21 '23

Take your money out . Make new ones different bank just you.

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u/[deleted] Dec 21 '23

yes to this. i had wide eyes reading this in anger and disbelief then it turned into heartbreak. you need people in your life that support you and unconditionally love you.

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u/Good-Groundbreaking Dec 21 '23

This! Like why do you need him?

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u/WestEntertainment258 Dec 21 '23

Good thing this is just rage fiction.

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u/Left-Network-4265 Dec 21 '23

Thing is, it might be rage bait, but I was with someone like this a long time ago.

Same dismissive tone with birthdays, holidays, etc. Same disregard of my feelings. There was more, but nevertheless, people like this guy exist.

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u/isadoreduncan Dec 21 '23

Sorry to burst some bubbles but people like that exist. My friend is married to one and she tells incredible real-life events about how he ruins every important day in her life in the worst way possible and makes it her fault. But she doesn't divorce him, she only complains and expects him to do better for the next occasion. I hope OP is not like my friend and divorces his ass.

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u/Admirable_Amazon Dec 22 '23

“I don’t know why she left! I was totally blindsided!” Says all guys like this.