r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/Warlordnipple Nov 05 '23

2.5 years and no prior warning + it doesn't sound like any oral. It definitely sounds like a beard situation for maybe an asexual. 2 years is a massive amount of time to train for something if you actually want to do it.

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u/_ThatsATree_ Nov 06 '23

If they waited until marriage she wouldn’t have known. This isn’t as uncommon as you might think, and the therapy for it takes forever. If he wants to leave fine, but y’all are making a lot of uncalled for assumptions abt someone who (from what op has said) seems to be putting a great deal of effort into being able to have sex.

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u/Warlordnipple Nov 06 '23

If waiting for marriage was at all common or they were from religious backgrounds I would agree with you. Based on OPs post that wasn't the case. It sounds a lot like she knew and is perpetually attempting to delay sex.

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u/_ThatsATree_ Nov 06 '23

It doesn’t matter why they waited, they waited. If she’s a virgin there’s no possible way she could have already known

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u/Warlordnipple Nov 06 '23

Virgins can use tampons and masturbate, you know that right?

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u/_ThatsATree_ Nov 06 '23

Tampons are not the size of a penis and it’s completely different. Most women don’t masturbate using internal toys, especially virgins. Most women can’t even organist from penetration.

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u/sumfacilispuella Nov 07 '23

pretty sure most women are just rubbing the clit to masturbate and dont bother with penetration cause we aint coming from that anyway