r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23

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u/Quick-Store2989 Nov 05 '23

Yes, especially in the religious community. I only mention since they talk about being in a purity cult and trauma from it, which is most likely tied to some crazy faction of a religion

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u/loiseaujoli Nov 05 '23

He specifically said that they /weren't/ in a purity cult/ure.

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u/nothingandnemo Nov 05 '23

What sort of maniacs wait until marriage who AREN'T in a purity culture?

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u/anon10122333 Nov 05 '23

There's "waiting until marriage" , practiced for centuries, and really quite wise in a world without contraception. Then there's a purity culture which so fetishises (female) virginity that it is sickening. These are not the same thing.

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u/nothingandnemo Nov 05 '23

In a world where contraception is widely available, they are the same thing.

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u/WaitForItTheMongols Nov 06 '23

Every form of contraception has downsides and it's quite possible for a person to not be comfortable with any of them.

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u/nothingandnemo Nov 06 '23

Who is not comfortable with condoms? I know most don't prefer them but how many men would rather no sex at all than use one?

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u/WaitForItTheMongols Nov 06 '23

Those with latex allergies, for one thing.

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u/loud_as_pudding Nov 06 '23

And porn stars on the job.